Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Romancing your Marriage {Week 9}

Did you know that .... "An Estimated 83% of Divorces Would NOT Take Place If Couples Just Asked Each Other The Right Questions"

When I read this, I was actually a little surprised at the statistics. The problem is that many couples are afraid to have "Open Communication" since they don't want their partners to judge them, their choices, and many times to hurt them.

Ready? Let's get down to business!
{This weeks prompt is from the book "1000 Questions for Couples"

Here is a list of questions that both you and your partner need to answer. In order to really be accurate and to be fair and not take an hour or more to actually do it, Ryan and I did it ourselves first and than a couple of days later shared our answers with each other. I have to say that I was really amazed at how well he really knows me. I mean he "actually" listens and retains most of what I say to him. LOL

Do what works best for you, and remember...be HONEST!

  1. What are your favorite childhood memories?
  2. What are your favorite family traditions?
  3. What are your political beliefs?
  4. What kind of relationship does you have with his/her parents?
  5. What about your siblings?
  6. If you could relive one day of your childhood, what day would it be?
  7. What kind of hobbies did you have as child?
  8. What are your natural talents?
  9. Are you more of an extrovert or introvert?
  10. Where would you travel if you could go anywhere in the world?
  11. What is your idea of a perfect date?
  12. Does you believe in karma? Destiny?
  13. What is the difference between love, romance, and sex?
  14. What is the difference between sexuality and sensuality?
  15. What is the difference between having sex and making love?
  16. Who is more romantic, men or women? Why?
  17. What is the most romantic thing you have ever done?
  18. Do you believe in public displays of affection?
  19. What is the best relationship advice that you have ever gotten?
  20. Can a couple be too much in love?
  21. What's the difference between sexy and erotic?
  22. What is your secret sexual fantasy?
  23. How often would you like to have sex?
  24. What words do you want to hear during lovemaking?
  25. What are the two most sensitive parts of your body?
  26. Do you enjoy sex toys?
  27. Would you ever go skinny dipping? In private?
  28. What kind of clothing do you find sexy?
  29. Would you have sex in an outrageous location (i.e. plane, elevator, etc)?
  30. Do you feel comfortable discussing your sexual preferences with your partner?

2 comments:

Michelle said...

Communication is the key!
Thanks for the questions...and the time you spend posting this marriage prompt!

Cathy said...

that must have taken you forever to post all that. Thanks!!
Very interesting topics... :)